Grace's Family Relations Blog

            Adapting to change in marriage can be difficult. The first month of marriage may bring new surprises. For me the biggest thing was having to share a bed. I always would sleep in the middle of the bed, with some kind of noise going on, either a fan, my phone white noises, or having a window open. My husband was not the biggest fan of my white noises but he was kind enough to put up with it. He is a snuggler at night and I would rather be left alone and not touched all night. Some nights I would cuddle with him until I could feel he was asleep, then i'd turn him over so I could sleep by myself. Another change was having to share space. I always had my own room growing up, so now having to share; it was not an easy task. My room when I lived alone was either super clean, or super messy. I had to learn to continuously pick up my clothes off the floor after I had changed 10 times before leaving the house. Luckily I married someone who is patient...